Voices of Compassion

The Maryknoll Mission Archives continues to wish the Maryknoll Lay Missioners a joyous Golden Jubilee! A 50th anniversary marks a special time in an organization’s life, and leads us to reflect on its rich history. Archives is home to the Maryknoll Lay Missioners’ historic collections, and we enjoy showcasing former lay missioners and their unique missions in our blog.

As we approach MKLM’s 50th anniversary celebration in August, I wanted to do something a little different. I often focus on history from the early 1900’s. Today, I’m switching it up and sharing missioners’ experiences from the early 2000’s. Below, you can read the reflections of lay missioners who served in countries across Africa, Asia, and the Americas. All quotes come from Voices of Compassion, an MKLM newsletter which was published from 2005 to 2020.

This past summer, I had the opportunity to visit Maryknoll Lay Missioners’ ministries in several Southeast Asian countries…some of which you’ll read about in this issue of Voices of Compassion. Invariably, the mission activities were relevant and inspirational. Included among my many stops was a home for children with AIDS, a massage therapy training center for the blind, and a center to receive and combat the trafficking of women and girls. In every case, I was reminded what a privilege it is to offer practical assistance while demonstrating faith, hope, and love in Jesus’ name.

This privileged service continues the Maryknoll tradition of meaningful mission service designed to meet immediate needs, while providing community benefits that continue into the future. As the newest of the Maryknoll entities, (we were established in 1974), we have learned an enormous amount from the Maryknoll Fathers & Brothers and Maryknoll Sisters, and whenever possible we continue to working side-by-side with them in service to the world’s poor and disenfranchised.

Kevin Mestrich, former Maryknoll Lay Missioner

Reflection on a pastoral visit to through Southeast Asia, Voices of Compassion, Spring 2007

Kevin Mestrich in mission in Kenya

Kevin Mestrich in mission in Kenya

Portrait of Alicia Butkiewicz

Portrait of Alicia Butkiewicz

To be impoverished in Latin America is to be among the poorest of the poor…those for whom we share a responsibility as members of Christ’s body. Theirs are the very faces of poverty. They are not only poor, but often are also subjected to the abuse and domination known as “machismo.” They endure unequal employment opportunities, lower pay than men for the same work, and reduced educational opportunities.

Still, they must find the strength to hold together their families and the very fabric of their communities. It is our privilege to serve them in their daily struggles.

Like many other Maryknoll Lay Missioners, those who have been called to serve the poor women of Latin America must be both tough and tender. Our missioners, while driven by compassion and an ability to relate to the suffering of others, must be strong enough to live and work in very challenging settings. They may be addressing very basic needs or walking arm-in-arm with those protecting women’s (and human) rights. In every case, they are also working to create a broader understanding of the inherent dignity possessed by every one of God’s children.

Be assured that they, and all of us, are strengthened by your prayers and financial support. We are humbled by your confidence and grateful for the chance to serve others on your behalf…Thank you very much – from Maryknoll Lay Missioners in Latin America and around the globe.

Alicia Butkiewicz, former Maryknoll Lay Missioner

Reflection on serving in Latin America, Voices of Compassion, Winter 2008

Upon our arrival in Africa, we spent ten days in Nyumbani Village near Nairobi. Nyumbani means “home” in Kiswahili and this village currently holds nearly 400 orphans living with or affected by the AIDS pandemic. Eventually this village will be a home for 900 orphans and their grandmother/caretakers.

We were asked by Archbishop Lele of Mombasa to coordinate the creation of a similar village in the Mombasa Archdiocese, and Nyumbani has been a model for us.

Tsavo Children’s Village (TCV) has been picked as the name for the AIDS orphan project we are coordinating. Since the 1,000 acre plot is virtually surrounded by Tsavo National Wildlife Park, its name recognition has the potential to attract the attention of Tsavo safari visitors from around the world.

In these uncertain economic times, we want to be sure that TCV will have a self-sustaining financial component so that the project will not have to be perpetually and solely funded by donors to stay in existence. Therefore, we are designing an agro-forestry business that will help ensure self-sustainability for TCV. The business is currently referred to as “Trees for Children”.

Pat & Ilona Helmholz, former Maryknoll Lay Missioners

Tsavo Children’s Village, Mombasa, Kenya, Voices of Compassion, Winter 2009

Pat and Ilona Helmholz at their Recommitment ceremony, 2018

Pat and Ilona Helmholz at their Recommitment ceremony, 2018

Llona Helmholz and Nyumbani Village's pastor, Fr. Julius Maingi, watch as hundreds of AIDS orphans run from school to church for mid-week morning services.

Ilona Helmholz and Nyumbani Village’s pastor, Fr. Julius Maingi, watch as hundreds of AIDS orphans run from school to church for mid-week morning services. Photo featured in Voices of Compassion, Winter 2009.

Portrait of John and Cindy Korb. Photo originally appeared in Voices of Compassion, Spring 2011.

Portrait of John and Cindy Korb. Photo originally appeared in Voices of Compassion, Spring 2011.

We started seriously thinking about taking early retirement so we could teach overseas… MKLM’s mission statement summarized what we [knew we] would like to do in our retirement years: inspired by the mission of Jesus to live and work with poor communities… responding to basic needs and helping to create a more just and compassionate world.

We also liked that the organization has a long history of serving overseas, that there are well developed training opportunities to help ensure a successful and rewarding experience, and that we would be living in community with other MKLM missioners.

Cindy and John Korb, former Maryknoll Lay Missioners

Reflection on their decision to join MKLM, Voices of Compassion, Spring 2011

The school began with only pencils and paper outdoors under a canopy in September, 2011. Today the school resides in a beautiful building which represents a visible exterior transformation of our ministry. But what really animates and brings life into a ministry are the people in the community. Art can be a tool for social change by engaging youth and families for positive social and personal transformation.
Mary Ann Carmel, former Maryknoll Lay Missioner

Adescomiiz Indigenous Art School, Izalco, El Salvador, Voices of Compassion, Winter 2012

Mary Ann Carmel works with her students at the - Adescomiiz Indigenous Art School. Photo originally appeared in Voices of Compassion, Winter 2012.

Mary Ann Carmel works with her students at the Adescomiiz Indigenous Art School. Photo originally appeared in Voices of Compassion, Winter 2012.

Portrait of Donna Stiglmeier

Portrait of Donna Stiglmeier

With my feet planted in Bolivia, I returned to the United States and shared stories from a new and forming vantage point….We can learn about Bolivia through the United States, and the Bolivian reality can teach people in the U.S. to re-commit to freedom for all people around the world, and make manifest God’s invitation to love each other…wherever we find ourselves. Bridges are strongest when the feet are firmly planted in both places, but my Bolivian feet are still getting strengthened to complement my ‘United States feet…’
Donna Stiglmeier, former Maryknoll Lay Missioner

Reflection on mission in Boliva, Voices of Compassion, Fall 2013

During my first days in the city of Sao Paulo, where ten Maryknoll Lay Missioners live and work, I visited several prisons and inside each I witnessed a variety of ministries taking place. In fact, in my 9 days in Brazil I spent 2 full days in prison!

Early in the week I observed Kathy Bond and Carolyn Trumble minister to pregnant women who were incarcerated, mostly for robberies or drug trafficking. Heidi Cerneka reviewed the sentences of various women in the general prison, while Sirikit Noronha and Katie Coldwell attended to the legal processes. Catherine Heinhold and Joanne Blaney worked with male prisoners and guards in the huge and overcrowded (an understatement for sure) “temporary” prison.

Each experience had a very strong impact on me but I want to focus on the last. The men’s prison is just one of the many places where Joanne Blaney… has initiated processes of restorative justice. In a nutshell, restorative justice is a process to help people get in touch with their own anger, recognize its origins and, in the end, work for a conversion of heart. The goal is for the individual to look at oneself, at others and at the world in a very new way.

Sam Stanton, former Maryknoll Lay Missioner

Reflection on a pastoral visit to São Paulo, Brazil, Voices of Compassion, Spring 2014

Portrait of Sam Stanton

Portrait of Sam Stanton

Photos of Michael (above) and Ashley Leen (below) while serving in Tanzania. Photos originally appeared in Voices of Compassion, Spring 2015.

Photos of Michael (above) and Ashley Leen (below) while serving in Tanzania. Photos originally appeared in Voices of Compassion, Spring 2015.

It occurred to us that, as missioners, our job description is not a job description. It is a life description. It is a vocation. By that we mean a strong inner calling towards a particular way of life – not a job, but a way of life. And life does not occur between 9 AM – 5 PM. We “work” when facilitating seminars, talking culture with Tanzanians on the public bus, buying food in the outdoor market, conversing with beggars on the street or inviting the neighborhood children into our home to play. Each moment is an opportunity to enter more fully in the reality of life of another human being, to further shape and define our character and to respond with love and compassion.
Michael and Ashley Leen, former Maryknoll Lay Missioners

Mabatini, Mwanza, Tanzania, Voices of Compassion, Spring 2015

In my work at the Missionaries of Charity orphanage, I get to know many little “cherubs” or “screaming engines,” depending on the time of day or mood they are in at that moment… There are no official systems or services in the villages to address the needs of individuals with mental illness or drug addiction. The families of these individuals lack the knowledge and resources to cope with them. Too often their own families and communities shun these individuals. As appalling and disturbing as Naruth’s story sounds, it is not an isolated or unique incident. The orphanage has other children who come from different villages and provinces sharing very similar background narratives.

In many aspects, the children at the orphanage are the lucky ones. It is through God’s grace and the good will from helping organizations and individuals that Naruth and her sister have been saved. They have escaped the vicious cycles of abuse and neglect and have been transplanted into a nourishing and caring environment that will enable them to develop to their full potentials. These children now have a better chance for a brighter future.

Hang Tran, Maryknoll Lay Missioner

Missionaries of Charity Orphanage, Phnom Penh, Cambodia, Voices of Compassion, Spring 2016

Hang Tran on the cover of Voices of Compassion, Spring 2015.

Hang Tran on the cover of Voices of Compassion, Spring 2015.

Portrait of Peg Vámosy

Portrait of Peg Vámosy

After eight years as a Maryknoll Lay Missioner, with the last four of them in El Salvador, I still love my work! I am in a rural Catholic parish and support the social ministries, which include health, human rights, skills and leadership training, agriculture and the environment. My focus is mainly on the last two. Life here is rather precarious with threats of violence, militarization, injustice, corruption, poverty and environmental degradation. Anything we can do to strengthen families, educate youth, create opportunities and develop the local economy, while protecting the fragile environment, helps promote peace and justice. It means we celebrate life to the fullest!

… The work to create a more just and compassionate world continues every day in small actions, not unlike planting seeds and watering them. Accompanying the Salvadoran people on their journey toward a better future is why I’m here. I trust that my sharing in the joys, sorrows and challenges of ordinary daily life helps to give people dignity and hope in a place where many suffer from economic problems and gang violence. I’m sure that you find many opportunities to bring hope and joy to those in your own corner of the world! May all our efforts be fruitful, healing and blessed throughout the coming years!

Peg Vámosy, former Maryknoll Lay Missioner

Monte San Juan, El Salvador, Voices of Compassion, Spring 2017

I have been a Maryknoll lay missioner for 21 years and served in Sao Paulo, Brazil, for 18 years, and for the last three years, as Director of Mission Services in New York. I have learned to see from multiple perspectives and hope to continue to do so as I now return to mission in Brazil. I am inspired by the MKLM call to be a compassionate presence in service and to join with others in working to change unjust structures. My deep sadness in seeing the disparities in our world, where more than 1.3 billion people live in extreme poverty (less than $1.25 a day) and over 65 million people are displaced from their homes because of war, famine and violence, motivates me to continue in mission.

… I am grateful for my years with the dedicated staff of MKLM in New York, and look forward to rejoining the Brazil Maryknoll community as we work together to bring more peace and justice to our world. I am so blessed by the incredible witness of so many men and women in our world who, in spite of so many difficulties and sufferings, continue to hope and work toward a better world for all.

Joanne Blaney, Maryknoll Lay Missioner

Director of Mission Services in Maryknoll, NY, Voices of Compassion, Spring 2018

Joanne Blaney (center) and her team of Restorative Justice facilitators. Photo credit: Courtesy of Joanne Blaney, featured in Voices of Compassion, Spring 2018.

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Deepen my compassion, O God
By Heidi Cerneka

Deepen my compassion, O God.
You are the judge, not me

My sister left behind home, family, culture, language
When she fled to protect her life, her children, their future,
As greed and power ravaged her nation.

My brother asked for refuge,
A refuge promised by the UN and the U.S.,
But we welcomed him with detention,
Separation from loved ones.

Teach me to walk a mile in their sandals
And be moved to indignation and action.

Stretch my compassion, O God.
To embrace those
Who see this reality differently.
Move us beyond and entrenched beliefs,
Inspire us to creative responses
And justice that restores relationships
And hope for all.

May those who knock at our door
Seeking refuge and hope,
Who are met with condemnation and walls by this nation,
May they challenge us
To live our baptismal promise to the Gospel,
And may they judge us with compassion when we fail.

Amen.

This poem was featured in Voices of Compassion, Spring 2019.

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Our 50th anniversary. Maryknoll Lay Missioners. (2024). https://mklm.org/maryknoll-lay-missioners-50th-anniversary/

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